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Wedding Responsibilities

The groom usually chooses a few men who he can trust for taking care that everything goes well on the D day. He usually chooses his close friends, colleagues and family members. Once he chooses who to pick, he divides the duties among them. This way, every person gets a specific task list and there is no chaos.

The best man has the most crucial role to play. He has the most responsibilities. He needs to see to it that everything goes well. He is also responsible for arranging the bachelor party. He is responsible for arranging for the travel of both the bride and the groom. He is also responsible for supervising the ushers and other grooms men. He takes care of the ring and the wedding license before the ceremony. He needs to see that everything goes well and the party is going on smoothly. The other groomsmen and the ushers are responsible for the hospitability. They need to make sure that the guests are seated and they are comfortable. They need to unroll the aisle runner before the bride enters. They need to ensure nobody is left behind from the reception. They are also expected to introduce guests to each other.

Posted on September 30, 2008

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Avoid injuries before wedding

You might feel that you desperately need to lose some weight before marriage. So you join the gym and set out on an ambitious exercise plan.

But you must not rush into anything so fast. If you embark on a rigorous exercise routine, then chances are that you might get injured. And injury is something that you will not want to have before your special day. If you have some knee or back problem, then you must let your instructor know about it. There is no point trying to be a super woman. Your trainer needs to tailor made the program for you. Women are at greater tendency for ACL injuries. The ACL is the ligament that is responsible for holding the knee bone in place. Thus, you will need to be extremely careful. It is better not to be too ambitious. You need not prove anything to anyone. You must chalk out a routine that is not too taxing on you. You also need to keep your age and physical form in mind. If you have a high target to reach, it is better to start out ahead of time. Try and control your diet too. This way, you will not have to depend totally on your exercise.

Posted on September 28, 2008

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Stress free wedding

It may be easier said than done but you need to avoid stress at all costs on your wedding. You cannot control everything. So it is better to let things take its own course. The best you can do is to pre plan as much as possible.

Make sure that you have started planning for your wedding at least three to four months before hand. You must jot down every small detail in pen and paper. Make sure you have a checklist ready and you tick off the items that you complete. Choose your vendors wisely and have all the agreement in writing. Brief them about what you want before hand. Avoid making any last minute changes. You can even call up the vendors a week before your wedding to make sure that everything is fine. Keep reliable attendants to take care of the arrangements at your wedding. Divide the tasks before hand and give them a checklist they can follow. This way, you will not have to bother about the intricate details. Do not skip food on your wedding day. That is the biggest mistake you can commit. Empty stomach stresses you more. Above all stay happy as that is something that should come naturally to you on that day.

Posted on September 26, 2008

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Planning your Wedding Speech

Public speaking can make you nervous any time. So if you have been asked to be the maid of honor or best man, then do not run. This is nothing earth shattering. You will just need to relax and then speak about your best friend who is the groom or the bride.

You will just need to start and the flow will come on it own. If you speak from the heart, then holding on to the audience will not be too difficult. Just take some time to figure out what you want to speak. You would need to keep in mind about how much you want to reveal in front of a packed audience. You might even want to check with the groom or the bride to make sure that you do not annoy them. Before you actually speak, you need to sit down and write the speech so that you are sure that you have included all the points. You must also practice it in front of people more than once if you want to be doubly sure that you do not stutter on the D day. Keep the speech short and make sure that you put in some emotions.

Posted on September 20, 2008

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Creating the wedding ambience

Flowers make your wedding look bright and cheerful. It totally changes the ambience. But that does not necessarily mean that you blow up all your money on the decorations. You should choose flowers that are in season. If you choose any flower that is out of season, then it will definitely cost you much more.

Choose simple but elegant decorations. You can get discount on bulk purchases. Also you must compare the retailers before choosing any one. If you are good at craft then you ca also make your wedding centerpiece on your own. It will be a lot cheaper and you will get something totally of your choice. Use of scented candles can lift your spirits to a great extent. You can have pretty aromatherapy candles to cheer up your guests. Make sure that the decorations are color coordinated. If you have a theme, then you need to make sure that the theme reflects everywhere. Choose a suitable music for all occasions. You can opt for a band or you can ask your friends or family to sing for you. Above all, remain cheerful. That is what sets the ambience in the real sense.

Posted on September 16, 2008

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Planning your wedding well

A wedding is the most special occasion of your life. The most important part of a wedding lies in its planning. Here are some tips to plan a wedding.

•    When you are ordering your wedding cake, it makes sense to order various layers of different flavors. It makes the cake look interesting and at the same time it saves money.
•    Fix your hair and makeup specialists before hand. Have your facial done a week before the D day, if you are afraid that you might have rashes. If you need accessories for your hair, it is more practical to buy them yourself instead of leaving it to the stylist. It is better to try out the make up and hairstyle before hand so that you are not in for any kind of surprises.
•    Choose your caterer carefully. While selecting the menu, keep in mind guests of all age and genre. You cannot have only veg food and vice versa. Decide on what drinks you want to serve.
•    Choose a photographer who will give you your negatives. That way, you can get as many copies as you want. Make a checklist of all the items that need to be taken care of. This way, there will be no last minute rush.

Posted on September 14, 2008

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Money saving tips at your wedding

A wedding involves a huge amount of expenditure. Here are some tips that will help you save some money.

•    If you decide to get married in the off season months of January, February, March and November, then you will be able to save a lot of money.
•    If you want to wear a designer dress but your budget does not allow it, then you can think about renting. You can also opt out of having a detailed dress to save money.
•    You can buy your white shoes in summer when they are on the shelf. Later on, you will have to buy them from bridal shops where they will cost a bombshell.
•    You can choose silk flowers as fresh flowers can be expensive. Also you can preserve silk flowers as compared to fresh flowers.
•    You can check the dollar store for small items like candles and candle stands, vases and others.
•    To make your invitations more personalized, you can design them yourselves. It looks good and also saves a lot of money. There are various ways you can plan your wedding in your predefined budget. You will just have to do meticulous planning.

Posted on September 12, 2008

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Plan a unique exciting wedding

Every body gets married the traditional way. If you want you guests to remember you for a long time, then you need to get married in a unique exciting manner.

Maybe you can try a harbour cruise as a venue for your wedding reception. You will have good food and entertainment under the moonlit sky. Most wedding packages take care of the catering. You will be given an assortment of menu to choose from. You can choose a theme and color coordinate the decorations throughout. At traditional wedding halls and hotels, you will be sharing the venue with other people. The loud music on the other side, when people are giving their speeches may be disturbing. Since the hotel staff will be stretched, you might find that the service is not too good. A harbour cruise offers you privacy and convenience like nothing else. You need be afraid of the budget too. It is not too expensive. There are variable sizes of boat that are available. You can choose depending on the gathering. Everything will be taken care as a part of the package. You need not worry about the glitches as they are professional people.

Posted on September 06, 2008

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Catering services for your wedding

Any function will have some kind of involvement with food. It is one of the most essential ingredients of any party.

You can serve a full course meal with or without alcohol. Or you can serve simple snacks. You choice of food will depend on your budget. But one thing that you must keep in mind is that you need to have a wide variety of choices so that no one is disappointed. Before you actually decide on the menu, you need to choose the venue. Some sites offer catering services on site. Others will expect you to arrange for food. If you are arranging for a caterer, it is extremely important that they are comfortable with the venue and its layout. You will also need to decide how you are serving the food - buffet style, boxed lunches or seated service. Of course you caterer needs to be efficient enough to handle all of these. You will need to ask your caterer to provide sufficient staff. As a best practice, you need to provide one server per ten guests. There are some caterers who offer total event planning. They will do the decorations. They can even plan a themed party for you.

Posted on September 04, 2008

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Plan an Affordable wedding

You need not have an extravagant wedding at all. If you feel that you cannot spend a fortune on your weddings then do not be disheartened. You can have a great wedding on a tight budget too. You just need to plan properly.

First you will have to choose a suitable venue based on your invitees. No point booking a huge venue when you have only a handful of guests. You can also hold the reception in a friend’s backyard for a nominal amount if the weather permits. This way, you can have full access to the kitchen, tables, chairs, sitting area and restrooms without having to pay extra. You can decorate the place yourselves. You will just need to buy some decorative stuff. This will definitely be less than having a professional do it. You can create your own centerpiece and flower and candle decorations at a minimal cost. You need not spend too much on food too. You can actually arrange a potluck dinner. Your relatives and friends can get one dish per family and it will result in a fabulous meal. You can ask your mom to bake the cake. This way, you will not need to spend a huge amount on food and also have a personal touch.

Posted on August 28, 2008

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Presenting wedding favors to your guests

Finding wedding favors should not be a problem for any bride. The options are endless. You can even customize the favors. But once you have chosen the favors, you need to give them away to the guests.

To decide how you want to give your wedding favors, you would need to decide on the theme of your weddings. Then you need to decide on how many guests will attend the wedding and what kind of gifts you will give. All these factors are responsible for deciding on how you want to present the favors to your guests. Now comes the important part as to how you want to give away. One way is to keep the favors at each guest’s place setting. This is the most common way to give away awards. You can also append the wedding favor to back of the chair, maybe with a bow or any other material. It will act as a good decoration for your reception and guests will also be happy to see it. You might even decide to appoint an usher who will stand at the entrance and personally hand over the favors to the guests. This adds a personal touch. If the number of guests are not too many, then the bride and the groom can personally visit each table and hand over the favors expressing their appreciation.

Posted on August 24, 2008

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Getting friendly with your spouse

If you want to build a rapport with your spouse, then you will need to walk a mile in his or her shoes. You will have to start from where the other person is. You must start from what is familiar to your spouse. Gradually you can mould him or her according to your preference. Here are some tips on how to build a rapport with your spouse. •    You would have to temporarily downplay what you expect from your spouse. You need to see the other person’s point of view is instead of harping on your own.
•    Make an honest effort to understand how your spouse feels about certain things. If he has a different opinion, then try to understand why he feels in that way. Try to think from his point of view. This way, you are sure to reach an amicable conclusion on any issue.
•    Try and notice small things that your spouse likes or dislikes. These small things sure make a large difference.
•    Spend as much time you can with your spouse. Once you are successful in making him feel wanted and cared for, you will be able to open his mind to broader ideas.

Posted on August 15, 2008

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