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Getting friendly with your spouse

If you want to build a rapport with your spouse, then you will need to walk a mile in his or her shoes. You will have to start from where the other person is. You must start from what is familiar to your spouse. Gradually you can mould him or her according to your preference. Here are some tips on how to build a rapport with your spouse. •    You would have to temporarily downplay what you expect from your spouse. You need to see the other person’s point of view is instead of harping on your own.
•    Make an honest effort to understand how your spouse feels about certain things. If he has a different opinion, then try to understand why he feels in that way. Try to think from his point of view. This way, you are sure to reach an amicable conclusion on any issue.
•    Try and notice small things that your spouse likes or dislikes. These small things sure make a large difference.
•    Spend as much time you can with your spouse. Once you are successful in making him feel wanted and cared for, you will be able to open his mind to broader ideas.

Posted on August 15, 2008

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Tips on receiving your guests

It is always good to receive your guests on your wedding day. However, you must keep a tab on the time. Practically, you must give 30 minutes for every 100 people in the line.

Once you are familiar with the basic idea of what a receiving line is all about, you will be able to handle it better. You can form the receiving line either in the vestibule right after the ceremony or at the entrance to the reception area. Once everybody in the line is in position, then you start receiving. Keep the greetings precise but sincere. If you find tome, it is always better to review the guest list before hand. You must introduce your relatives and friends to your spouse and vice versa. If the line is exceptionally long, then you can include some pleasant music to make the wait lively. You can also ask the waiter to serve hors d’oeuvres and champagne. Try and be as friendly as you can. If by chance you forget the name of any person or are having some problem pronouncing the name, it is better to stick to general comments not involving the name. You will not want to get embarrassed on your wedding day for sure.

Posted on August 13, 2008

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Beat Wedding Blues

It is natural for all of us to be a bit nervous before our wedding. But that does not give you any license to call off the wedding or run away from it. Planning a wedding can be really stressful at times.

But that does not mean that you are stressed about the marriage. Learn to distinguish both kinds of stresses. You might have petty grievances with your partner about how disorganized he is or how casual his outlook towards life is. But that is not a reason for you to call off your wedding. It is important that both of you talk to each other and resolve any petty grievances you have. The transition from in a wedding brings with it mixed feelings. It brings uncertainty as well as excitement. There is no reason for you to be scared of these feelings and run. This is a natural phase in all our lives. Enjoy it to the hilt. If you have any doubt in your mind regarding anything, it is better to clarify now instead of arriving at the altar with reservations. If you feel that you are not too sure to go ahead with the wedding, then postpone the wedding instead of cancelling it outright.

Posted on August 11, 2008

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Handy Wedding Day Tips

Your wedding day is a day where everything should be perfect. But you will never stop worrying lest something goes wrong at the last moment. Isn’t it? Here are some tips that will help you get plan things in a way that you stay free of worries.

•    The most important task is to choose the date and venue and the budget. Once that is done, half your worries are over. Make sure you stick to the budget.
•    Book the venue in advance.
•    Make sure your dress, shoes and other accessories are chosen much before hand.
•    See to it that your guest list is prepared before hand and revise it thoroughly to ensure that nobody has been missed out.
•    Get the music and the photographer organized with care. Make sure that they arrive before hand.
•    The flowers for the bride’s bouquet must match the bridal gown.
•    Practice our vows in front of the mirror so that you do not falter on the D day.
•    You must choose the menu with proper care much in advance. You have to take into consideration all your guests. It is most important for you to be happy and relaxed on your special day

Posted on August 09, 2008

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Wedding Linens

Wedding linens are an important part of the reception. The napkins, the table and chair covering and the runners need to be chosen with utmost care.

Table covers are available in numerous prints, including lace, elegant, theme, sheer, holiday, and so on. You will have to choose one that will complement the theme. A runner is a broad strip of fabric that is kept on top of the table covering and it runs down the center. It is supposed to add color to the setting. They are available in different shape and sizes. You can also choose from an assortment of colors. Some even have tassels instead of being hemmed at the end. The napkins must also be selected to complement the existing setting. They are also available in a variety of prints. For instance if your wedding theme is pink and grey, then you might think of having a pink table cloth with grey runner. The napkins can be pink in color with grey rings. If you wish, you can have chairs matching the table settings, then you have to choose suitable chair covers. You can also have pretty flowers decorating the back of the chair. It is important that your covers fit the chairs snugly. An oversized cover will not look very good.

Posted on August 07, 2008

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Lace veils for your wedding

If you are looking for traditional lace veils, then chances are that you might get frustrated easily. Most shops only offer the latest lace veils.

So instead of looking at the wrong places and getting frustrated with the result, you will have to look at the right place only. The first place to start is the antique store. Most people feel that antique stores only sell furniture and glassware. But the fact is that they are the best places to find vintage lace veils. These stores also conduct antique shows in different cities. If there is one happening in your city, then make sure that your do not miss it. An estate sale allows anyone to buy items from an estate. It is often the place where you have ample chances to come across a beautiful vintage veil and that too at a nominal price. Another place where you can easily find lace veils are online and local auctions. Here you can even set your own price. Before you actually invest in a vintage veil, it makes sense to ask them if the veil is professionally cleaned or not. Also make sure it is in good condition before paying for the item.

Posted on August 05, 2008

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Facilities at your wedding

If you have high profile guests attending your wedding, then you might want to depute security guards at your wedding. These guards screen the guest as per the pre prescribed guest list.

They make sure that there are no gate crashers. Hiring security guards is the best way to keep a control on your guest list. It really looks bad if you have to patrol up and down to screen guests, in your wedding attire. It is better to approach the company before hand so that you can be relaxed on that aspect at least. If you have many guests arriving, you might also want to have a valet parking option available. This will ensure that your guests do not park miles away from the venue and then walk. They can simply get down at the venue and hand over the keys to the valet. The rest will be taken care of the valet. They will park the car and then get them back when the wedding is over. Another important facility available at your wedding should be a good cleaning service. It must include everything from vacuuming, window treatments, cleaning up spills, furniture polish and others. You can check the yellow pages for details on companies providing these services.

Posted on August 03, 2008

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Balloons for your wedding

Balloons are a sign of festivity and happiness. They are a common sight in wedding and engagement parties. They cheer up the atmosphere and add the fun factor.

Balloons come in a variety of shapes, sizes and colors. You can opt for heart shaped balloons for your wedding. The balloons can come in a variety of colors – pink, red, white and others. You can also tie streamers on them to make them look prettier. If you wish to, then you can also customize your balloons with images to add special effects. You can imprint the photo of the bride and the groom with their wedding date if you want to really personalize the decor. It is better to take the balloons directly to the reception hall instead of storing them at your home before hand. Balloons have a tendency to fizz out. You need to start shopping early if you want custom made balloons in a bulk. Placing order way ahead will also help you get good discounts. You must keep in mind that balloons can be harmful to small children. So keep an attendant to take care of the children to avoid any unwanted occurrences.

Posted on August 01, 2008

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Non traditional wedding gowns

If you have opted for a non traditional wedding, then chances are that you will want to have a non traditional wedding gown too. Here are few ideas of non traditional wedding gowns.

• You can opt for a solid white pantsuit if you wish to. You can choose an ankle length pant with white pumps. To complement it, you can use a solid white tank and blazer. • You can choose to wear a solid white slip dress with white pumps instead of the traditional white gown. • For a beach wedding theme, you can use jean shorts or skirt, with a colorful t-shirt and sandal. You can also have a floral hairpiece and garland to complete the look. • You need not wear only white. You can choose to wear a dress of any color. If pink is your favorite color, then go ahead and wear it. It is your wedding and your decision. Finding a dress that is not traditional is not too tough. You have a variety of options. You can visit your local specialty store or raid the internet. There will be an assortment of options available. In fact they will also be cheaper than traditional gowns.

Posted on July 29, 2008

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Choosing the Wedding band

It is not too easy to choose your wedding band. You will be spoilt for choice. All couples want something unique as their wedding band.

Bands are simpler in design than wedding rings but you can customize them as per your choice. The first decision that you need to make before buying the band is what metal should it be made of? You can choose yellow gold, white gold, platinum or titanium. Each will cost different. Gold is the most popular choice. It is a soft metal. So there are chances of scratches and marks that can cause the gold to look dull. But the color of the material will not change. Platinum and titanium are stronger and thus the marks will not be visible to easily. But they are far more costlier than gold. If you can afford it, then that is the best choice. If you do not have such a huge budget but still want the platinum look, then you must opt for white gold. White gold is cheap but there are chances of it turning yellow with time. You can even engrave your initials on the band if you want to make it unique.

Posted on July 27, 2008

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The Wedding Registry could be useful

The sooner you create your wedding registry, the better it is for you. It makes it easier for your guests to plan on what they would like to give you. You must carefully choose your gifts.

The entire idea is that your gifts must be useful to you. You would need to take a stock of the things that you already have first. Only then, you must register. There is no point of getting something that you already have. Before choosing a store, you must research a lot. Find out which place has a good stock and which ones give you better deals. There is no hard and fast rule that you must have only one store. You can choose two or more if you find the stock good. Once you have decided on the store you need to ask them to assign an expert to help you register. Some stores allow you register yourself with the help of a handheld scanner. Make sure you have gifts with a wide pricing mix. Not everybody will be able to afford expensive gifts. Also you must check whether the guests will have to pay extra for shipping or not. Once you register yourself, you will need to let your guests know that. It may be a little embarrassing though. You can include the information in your invitations or even the bridal shower invitation.

Posted on July 25, 2008

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The Food at the Wedding

The food at your wedding is very important. People are very finicky about what they eat. It is not a problem if you do not have a good decoration.

But if your food is bad, it will leave a bad taste in your guests' mouths. So do not compromise on quality. However, that does not mean that you spend thousands of dollars on catering. You can decide on a budget and get the best out of it. If you don’t want your guests to pay for their drinks and yet not end up paying a huge bill, the best way out of the situation is to decide from before, which drinks you want to serve. You can also keep the bar open for a few hours and then shut it down. You can also have a high tea reception where you only decide to serve appetizers. But you must clarify it before hand. You would not want your guests to come expecting full meal. Make sure that the caterer you choose is good. Ask for samples before hand. Also negotiate for a good deal. You must freeze the guest list to ensure that you do not run short of food.

Posted on July 23, 2008

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