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Pairing Desserts with Summer Wedding Cake Toppers

Finding the Right Summer Wedding Cake Toppers

Summer Wedding Cake Toppers

Summer is here and it's in full swing! It's no wonder that this season is the most popular for weddings; it's warm, beautiful, and everyone is prepared to cash in vacation time. What you need to crown your perfect summer wedding are a few summer wedding cake toppers. Summer wedding cake toppers differ from your traditional cake toppers in a few ways. You might find some summer wedding cake toppers that feature the happy couple in some warm weather-friendly wear (if your wedding is outside, I can only hope you're not putting your groom in a stuffy suit). You may decide that tropical summer wedding cake toppers are more your style (picture starfish, seashells, and everything in between). Or you might find that the summer wedding cake toppers that really fit the bill are ones that follow a light, fun summer wedding color scheme. You can't go wrong with your selection of summer wedding cake toppers, and don't feel like you have to conform to traditional wedding cake for your warm weather event either. Many couple like to pair their summer wedding cake toppers with lighter refreshments for their guests. Have your summer wedding cake toppers crown a table filled with light pastries: think canoles, sweet bread, or even ice cream! No one will say no to an orange dreamsicle or fudge pop on a hot summer day, especially if they don't have to miss out on some beautiful summer wedding cake toppers!
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Foodies Rejoice with Culinary Wedding Favors

Celebrate your Love of Food with Culinary Wedding Favors

Culinary Wedding Favors

Are you and your future spouse foodies to the core? Express your love of cooking, food, and each other by distributing culinary wedding favors on your big day. While culinary wedding favors can just be little edible goodies (think jams, homemade chocolate treats, grandma’s cookies), you might consider culinary wedding favors that act as cooking/baking implements! Your guests will love the opportunity to actually use their favors instead of leaving them on the table or letting them collect dust on a nick-knack shelf. Consider the measuring spoon favors – they’re culinary wedding favors that combine a cute, romantic sentiment, practicality, and a love of food and cooking! No guest would want to leave that behind. For the couple who’s more into eating than cooking, think about options such as salt and pepper shakers or mini honey pots for your culinary wedding favors. Even guests who have never made more than reservations can appreciate the good taste of these special treats!   Lay your culinary weddings favors out on place settings beforehand, or have them available on the table during dinner. Culinary wedding favors also make for great place card holders. Have your culinary wedding favors waiting to escort your guests to their seats before the party even begins!
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Hawaiian Cake Toppers: Wedding and Honeymoon!

You’ll Love Your Hawaiian Cake Toppers

Hawaiian Cake Toppers

The go-to destination for far-away, exotic weddings has always been and will always be Hawaii. Hawaii exudes beauty – what a perfect place for a wedding! It’s an extra plus if you’re an American couple looking for an exotic wedding locale; you don’t need passports! So if you’re packing your bags for a faraway getaway to the beautiful islands of Hawaii (or just looking for the look and feel of the islands at your wedding), be sure to find just the right Hawaiian cake toppers! Hawaiian cake toppers are exactly what you would expect from your typical beach toppers: ocean themes, seashells, palm trees – but they’re also so much more. If you’re looking for exclusively HAWAIIAN cake toppers, look for couple donning island drums, traditional hula fare, and leis. Hawaiian cake toppers will be great keepsakes to display on your mantle for years to come, and they’ll always remind you of the fun you had on your wedding day. The same is true if you’re looking for Hawaiian cake toppers as a nod to your honeymoon destination. You don’t need Hawaiian cake toppers just for Hawaiian weddings – they can be a clue to your impending vacation during your reception! Hawaiian cake toppers are a great way to tell your guests what you and your new spouse will be up to after you make your grand exit!
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Keeping your Wedding Deadlines Straight

When you start your wedding planning, it’s sometimes hard to keep up with all the various deadlines. How long do you have to write a thank you note if someone sends you a gift six weeks before the big day? Is a year too early for a wedding website? Save-the-dates? Here’s a quick run-down on some of the more important wedding deadlines you don’t want to miss:

Your Wedding Website – 8-12 months before
A wedding website is a great way to organize the details of your wedding in a way that your guests can access and enjoy as soon as they get their save-the-dates. The website is where you’ll put details about local hotels, directions to venues, registries, and even your unique proposal story, so feel free to make one as soon as any of those details are nailed out. You can always add information as you progress in your planning and spend the extra time tweaking details.     Your Save-the-Dates – 6-8 months before Save-the-Dates are for letting your guests know to make travel plans ahead of time. If you’re having an entirely local wedding, don’t even worry about sending them. If not, it’s important to balance when you send them out. Your guests need to book hotels, find a way to get time off of work, and maybe even book an extended stay babysitter. If you’re planning a summer wedding (high traffic vacation time) or a Christmas/Thanksgiving date, send them out as early as eight to nine months ahead of time. Just don’t send them out so early that everyone tacks them up on their refrigerators and forgets about them.
It’s also important to note that you should have your guest list (mostly) finalized before you send them out. A save-the-date is as good as an invitation, and guests will be confused and potentially offended if they don’t “make the final cut” and receive an invite. Your Registry – 6 months before
You can bump that registry deadline up if your circle is into engagement parties (as the point of a registry is to let everyone know what you want and need for gift giving occasions), but there really isn’t any reason to put together a registry until someone offers to throw you a shower. You don’t want your favorite items being discontinued way before your wedding date, especially if they’re part of a set and you end up with half a stemware set.
If you do end up setting up your registry early, avoid registering for sets of things and just throw some items on it that can be purchased singularly. You can always go back and add/remove items at your convenience.   Your Invitations – 8-10 weeks before
It’s important not to send your invitations out too soon, as you don’t want them collecting dust on a desk for three months. If you didn’t do save-the-dates, however, it’s equally important that you let your guests make plans well ahead of time. Be careful, though - any more notice than10 weeks and your guests are going to forget about their RSVP date.
Your RSVP cards, by the way, should carry a date of about two weeks or so before the wedding. Ask your caterer when they need the final headcount by, and give your guests a few days of a buffer zone; you want plenty of time to make a few calls to guests who missed the deadline.   Your Thank You Notes – within 2 months… within 2-3 weeks if it comes ahead of time
Get your thank you notes done as soon as you can – trust me! Any time between a month and two months after you return from your honeymoon is fine, but you can only help yourself by doing them as soon as you can. If you wait much longer than a couple of months, a note will just draw attention to the fact that it took this long to send a note.
If you receive a gift before your wedding date, you generally have a few weeks to send a note out, but don’t wait too long; your guests like to know that everything arrived in one piece.

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Ways to Use your Fun Monogram Cake Topper

A Funky, Fun Monogram Cake Topper

Fun Monogram Cake Topper

If you’re planning a fun, laid-back wedding, but you’re truly in love with monogram cake toppers, you don’t have to stick to the formal styles that grace so many wedding magazine covers. There is a fun monogram cake topper out there for you – in fact – there are probably several! Your fun monogram cake topper should match the look and feel of your wedding. If you’re having a posh loft wedding, something silly might not stick. But if you’re having a backyard barbeque, the curly q whimsy of a fun monogram cake topper won’t stick out at all.   Think about styling your own monogram (the one you stamp on invitations, napkins, etc) after the style of your fun monogram cake topper. As it’s often hard to find a cake topper that matches your stamps as apposed to the other way round (there are many services that craft stamps for you), you might want to think about purchasing your fun monogram cake topper first.   Have fun with your fun monogram cake topper. If you aren’t doing a big cake or even a dessert table, stick your fun monogram cake topper into a few cupcakes or even a wedding pie. Your fun monogram cake topper only has creative limits if you set them; go nuts!
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Bridal Party Gifts: Where, When, and Why!

They’ll Love Bridal Party Gifts

Bridal Party Gifts

Your bridal party – from your flower girls to your groomsmen – will be the backbone of your wedding day. Hopefully you’ve chosen your bridal party carefully, and you’re extremely happy to have them stand up for you as you marry your future bride/groom. So how should you thank them for their dedication, love, and (sometimes) hard work? Present them with bridal party gifts before the big day! Bridal party gifts are little ways to show your bridal party just how much you appreciate them – from a coloring book set for your ring bearer to an engraved flask for the best man, bridal party gifts should be personal, useful, and simple.   The best place to present bridal party gifts will be the rehearsal dinner: the get-together after the wedding rehearsal that doesn’t have to be too fancy (a backyard barbeque is more than enough). As you present your bridal party gifts, think about saying a few words of personal thanks to each of your guests. This isn’t a bad time to thank your parents either, as they’ll be attending your rehearsal dinner as well! Chose your bridal party gifts as carefully as you chose your bridal party; you won’t regret it!
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Why Keep your Wedding Linens?

Why You Should Purchase and Store your Wedding Linens

Wedding Linens

If you’re hosting your wedding at a location without available wedding linens, you have a couple of options: either rent them for the evening or buy them outright. Not many brides opt for purchasing their own wedding linens, but if your party is small enough, they can actually save you money in the long run, especially if you entertain a lot. Wedding linens are a special and important part of your wedding décor, why not keep them? Pass them along to your future children? Here are a few reasons why you should opt to purchase wedding linens, even if you’re only getting napkins, placemats, or table runners:   For Entertaining
If you entertain a lot, or even if you plan on entertaining ever again, saving your wedding linens will be worth it. Bust out those wedding linens at Thanksgiving, Christmas, or any other meal opportunity at your disposal. Bonus points if your wedding linens come with a monogram; it adds a hint of “Man, she really knows what she’s doing” to any holiday party. For Posterity
More than wedding photos, actual wedding artifacts (such as your wedding linens, your preserved bouquet) are going to become family treasures down the line. Give your progeny pieces of your wedding day to carry with them to pass to their own children. Your wedding linens will mean more then than you know. For Sentimental Value
Just like with the sentimental hand-me-downs, the emotional value of keeping your wedding linens is indispensable. You won’t regret keeping them, as your wedding linens will speak to the emotion and magic of your wedding day every time you open the linen cupboard.
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Why a Restaurant Wedding?

Selecting a venue for your ceremony and/or reception is usually the first step for a couple looking to piece together their wedding day. The venue will dictate the style and the details of the wedding – so where should you start? I suggest finding a restaurant for one or both of your venue needs, and here’s why:   No Vendor Hassle
Shuffling 200 different contacts and vendors in the weeks leading up to your wedding is enough to set anyone over the edge when they’re trying to plan a wedding. When you choose a restaurant as your ceremony/reception venue, however, you’re guaranteed that at least the food will be there on time. Restaurants also often come with lists of vendors that they work with frequently, so you’re close to guaranteed to be working with someone familiar with the conditions of the venue.

No Décor Worries
Restaurant come with décor (hopefully), and if you pick the right restaurant, you may not even need to add anything of your own at all. Most venues that are familiar with the wedding scene will often have selections of linens, simple centerpieces (like candles or paper goods), and will know how to arrange seating for optimal visibility and aesthetic joy. The lighting will also already be arranged in a way that suits an event. Easy as pie! No Wait Staff Hunting
For weddings hosted in blank or unfinished spaces, many couples forget that someone really should be running around putting things together before everyone gets there. Hiring a whole private wait staff can get expensive, and you really don’t want another thing you have to add to your list of “things to worry about” on your wedding day. Restaurant package deals usually come with a trained and capable wait staff who are more than familiar with the flow of a wedding.

No Difficult Parking
It may sound silly to worry about parking convenience in the midst of bigger considerations, but this really is something you should consider. Many non-restaurant venues (such as state parks) will actually charge for parking, and you don’t want your guests climbing steep unpaved lots to get to your out-of-the-way venue. The logistics of paying for guest parking ahead of time can be frustrating, and you really don’t need the added stress. Restaurants are usually good about ample, easy parking – check it out ahead of time! No Clean-Up
I have a good friend who was a maid of honor in a wedding recently, and the bride confided this to her about her proposed post-wedding clean-up: “People who love me will stay and clean.”
Please don’t expect your guests and/or bridal party to do this, especially if you’re taking off right after the reception concludes. Restaurants will take care of the cleaning for you, and you don’t have to saddle grandpa with a broom and dustpan at 2am.

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Selecting a Same Sex Wedding Cake Topper for Your Wedding

The Right Same Sex Wedding Cake Topper

Same Sex Wedding Cake Topper

One of the problems for the wedding-planning same-sex couple is often how bride-centered the wedding industry can be. What do you do when there isn’t a bride? What if there are two? There are enough hurdles during same-sex wedding planning that a couple really doesn’t need to deal with the frustration of same sex wedding cake topper hunting. Luckily, a same sex wedding cake topper is becoming easier to find, and not just in mix-and-match sets. Distributers are matching national tolerance trends and starting to produce a same sex wedding cake topper for a variety of styles and tastes. There’s a same sex wedding cake topper out there for you!   A same sex wedding cake topper is also a lovely gift for the betrothed (or indefinitely engaged) same sex couple in your life. A same sex wedding cake topper makes a lovely figurine for a couple building a new life together, regardless if they’re residing in one of the more enlightened United States. A same sex wedding cake topper is on its way to becoming as common as the heterosexual pair in selections of tops for your pastries, but there’s always room for growth. If you can’t find the right same sex wedding cake topper for you, consider a beautiful monogram or a personalized topper for your special day. Happy same sex wedding cake topper hunting!
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Simplicity in your Wedding Cake Topper Base

Finding the Right Wedding Cake Topper Base

Wedding Cake Topper Base

  So – you’ve found the perfect wedding cake topper! How do you make sure that it doesn’t sink in to your $500 cake? Well, your first step will be a consultation with your baker, but then you’ll probably need a wedding cake topper base. Not only will a wedding cake topper base keep your perfect topper in place throughout your ceremony, it also adds a hint of elegance and charm to the entire cake package. You can find a wedding cake topper base to fit any kind of topper (except for a cake pick!) and they all add a little something special to the arrangement. Purchasing or using an antique/vintage cake topper? An antique wedding cake topper base can be arranged by finding something off-white with touches of beads and antiqued flowers. An antiqued wedding cake topper base will make the ensemble go together perfectly – it’s what ties the package together!   Your wedding cake topper base is also important when it comes to the eventual display of your cake topper. Whether you want to display it at the reception on the dessert table or on your mantle for the next twenty years, the right wedding cake topper base makes your topper fit in just right.   Keep it simple with the styling of your wedding cake topper base – you wouldn’t want it to outshine the topper itself!
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Why you need a Bridal Hankie

A Bridal Hankie for the Big Moment

Bridal Hankie

If you’re getting married, chances are pretty good that you’re going to cry. The marriage ceremony is an intensely emotional experience and crying is part of the day – don’t be caught without a bridal hankie! Your bridal hankie will be your beautiful little companion throughout the day and will probably show up in several pictures – find something pretty! Finding the right bridal hankie isn’t difficult, but make sure it’s more than just a rag or tissue. You want your bridal hankie to last the entire night (hopefully longer!) so find something that’s built to last. If you’re looking for a gift for a bride in your life, think about a bridal hankie. Often, brides won’t think about a bridal hankie as a day-of necessity, but they will be glad when they have it! Brides – keep your bridal hankie tucked away somewhere accessible. Most bridal gowns don’t come with pockets (unfortunately), so you may have to improvise. Think about designating your maid of honor or husband-to-be to carry around your bridal hanky until you need it. Imagine how sweet the moment will be when your new husband hands you your beautiful bridal hankie to dap your tears at the altar.   You might also consider tucking your bridal hankie into your glove or the strap of your dress – just make sure it won’t fall out or shock any guests when you whip it out!
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Wedding “Essentials” that You Can Skip

Brides on a tight budget will sometimes have a hard time parting with “essential” things they normally associate with a wedding. But, honestly, if you end up married by the end of the day, you have achieved a successful wedding; everything else is just a bonus. If you’re worried about going over budget, consider skipping a few wedding “must-haves” that your day will survive without. You don’t absolutely “need”:   More than One Venue
Unless you’re invested in the idea of a church, far too many brides think that they need a space for their ceremony and a separate space for their reception. Bundling will save you a lot of green. I recommend finding a restaurant to host your nuptials – many spaces will cover décor and food, which will save you the hassle of finding a caterer and a rental company. If you’re pretty laid back, you may not even need to bring anything in as far as décor is concerned. Let them worry about it. Bushels of Fresh Flowers
Finding a venue that is naturally beautiful and full of shrubberies and wildflowers will save you a bundle on decorative, professional flowers. Flowers can eat up a huge amount of wedding cash, and they die – quickly. If I’m going to drop more than a thousand dollars on a detail of my wedding, I want it around for a while. If you love flowers and simply can’t live without them, ignore me. If you’re a bride who didn’t even know you could have a wedding without them, great alternatives are fabric or paper flowers. They’re fun crafts that you can make yourself and keep forever.

An Evening Itinerary
Breakfast, Lunch, and Brunch are undervalued wedding meals, and it’s about time we embrace them more in the wedding world. The advantages of a morning or early afternoon wedding far outnumber those events that take place in the evening: People tend to consume less alcohol earlier in the day, venues will have more availability (even on high-demand days), and I have it on the best authority that you have less time to have a bridal meltdown if your nuptials are before lunch.

An Expensive Officiant
While you can’t have a wedding without someone to perform the ceremony, there’s no reason to pay someone an arm and a leg for their services, unless you’re having a religious service. Find a friend or family member who’s willing, and $5 and ten minutes on the internet later you have an ordained clergy person. The advantage of having a close friend or family member officiate is their familiarity with your relationship; it’s always nice to have someone who knows you bonding you together for life.

Short Programs
Programs are helpful for long weddings that deal in services that some guests might not be familiar with, but if you’re having a simple summer wedding with a short, quick ceremony, programs can be kind of a waste. It’s a lot of paper that guests will simply throw away if you don’t think it’s entirely necessary. As for the names of the wedding party, just have them announced at your reception. No one will become belligerent because they didn’t catch the name of your maid of honor.

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